Our kids sometimes talk to themselves when they’re alone in bed, or at other times. These monologues, it turns out, may help them make sense of their day and process new experiences. Shhhhh — don’t interrupt them!
Does your child talk to herself when she’s alone in bed? Her monologues may help her make sense of her day.
New world experiences
Their evidence shows that small children who chatter to themselves are re-creating their world by retelling and interpreting key experiences, such as being left at day care or meeting a new pet. By talking these experiences over, your child finds meaning in them and this, in turn, enhances her developing sense of self.
Listen and learn
These special musings are part of your child’s growing emotional and cognitive skills. So listen to what she has to say without interrupting. Don’t be surprised if you hear your own scolding voice or an imitation of your comfort talk. She’s going over everything that happened to her, which naturally includes what goes on in your family.